significant other - cheerleader: fan thats out of the game - quarterback: partner who helps when you are weak - level of supportiveness: do you like your work so much you spend more with it than her? Do you hate your work and because of that you are on a bad mood with her? If this is true, your partner will want you to work less, making it harder to reach your goals - would you like to have your partners goals/responsabilities? You kinda share them when you are in a relationship